Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone

You may think of your comfort zone is a really nice and cozy place but it's probably not as comfortable as you might think. Your comfort zone is this idea or mental space of familiar patterns. It is the neural pathways that your brain runs over and over again to keep you in a state of homeostasis.

Homeostasis is any self-regulating process by which biological systems tend to maintain stability, while adjusting to conditions that are optimal for survival. Even though your comfort zone might not make you happy, it’s familiar and your brain is able to conserve energy and wants to keep you safe.

Staying in your comfort zone may keep you feeling safe, but it may also keep you stagnant and unfulfilled.


Stepping out of your comfort zone can be a challenging and intimidating experience, but it can also lead to personal growth, new experiences and a sense of accomplishment. Here are some tips to help you step out of your comfort zone and expand your horizons:

  1. Identify your fears: The first step to stepping out of your comfort zone is to identify what is holding you back. Take a moment to reflect on what you are afraid of and why. Are you afraid of Failure? Rejection? Uncertainty? Once you have identified your fears, you can begin to address them.

  2. Start small: Stepping out of your comfort zone doesn't have to be a big, scary leap. Start by taking small steps outside of your comfort zone. This could mean trying a new food, striking up a conversation with a stranger, or taking a different route to work. As you become more comfortable with small steps, you can gradually increase the level of challenge.

  3. Embrace discomfort: When you step out of your comfort zone, you will likely experience discomfort and anxiety. Instead of trying to avoid or suppress these feelings, embrace them as a natural part of the process. Acknowledge your discomfort and remind yourself that it is temporary and that you are capable of handling it.

  4. Set goals: Setting specific, achievable goals can help you stay motivated and focused on stepping out of your comfort zone. Write down your goals and break them down into smaller, actionable steps. Celebrate your progress along the way, and don't be afraid to adjust your goals as needed.

  5. Seek support: Stepping out of your comfort zone can be challenging, but you don't have to do it alone. Seek support from friends, family, mentor or coach. Join a group or community of like-minded individuals who are also working on stepping out of their comfort zones. Having a support system can provide encouragement and accountability.

  6. Reflect and learn: After stepping out of your comfort zone, take time to reflect on your experience. What did you learn? What worked well? What could you have done differently? Use this knowledge to guide your future efforts to step outside of your comfort zone.

Remember, stepping out of your comfort zone is a process, not a one-time event. With practice and persistence, you can expand your comfort zone and experience new opportunities and growth.